REAL L O V E
Are ya caught in an endless cycle of disappointment for yourself?
Do ya have some Real Love working for your life? If not, change it.
Real love is caring about the happiness of another person without any thought for what we might get for ourselves.
When we give Real Love, we’re not disappointed, hurt, or angry. When people are not aware we exist with their emotions or give us nothing in return for when we do something nice for them we seem to be up against real pain. Time to turn yourself around! Our concern should be for their happiness, not our own. This is the definition of Real Love.
How many people can truly say they offer or even receive this back. We experience a void in our heart when this does not occur.
Happiness can be guaranteed when we train ourselves to behave this way.
Our greatest fear can be unloved and unwanted. One way to protect our soul is to offer our best. You cannot lose. You build that connection for yourself and not wait for others to give it. You could be waiting for eternity….
On any given moment catch the time someone tries to make a connection to you. Build on this. Offer it back. I cannot tell you the times I have ignored this. For a long time- most of my life I have had the mindset built inside me why anyone would be my friend. There are so many other people that are far more exciting and better than me out there. "They’re just trying to be nice- that’s all." Look at it this way, they are just like me wanting approval and seeking the need to be accepted. Think on this daily.
Happiness is a sense of peace and fulfillment that circles the soul. You can achieve this by just a little work on your end. You make your life. It will trickle on down. If one person touches you in a day we automatically feel connected to everyone else. The reverse effect also can be if one person doesn’t hit it off with you then you think their friends will not either. Sometimes this is true, because we have sensed this in our soul. Brush this off because they do not control our happiness, we do. Experiment with this Real Love and see how your life can manifest into another direction. This takes time and patience.
Like anything… it takes practice and in little to no time you are conditioned to receive Real Love in life as nothing compares to lighting up someone’s life by giving them joy!!